I think I must have been lucky as I had a mother who was totally uninhibited in the underwear department. She eschewed girdles, rolls on and the like - she didn't even wear a bra until I begged her to (out of sheer 13 year old embarrassment that my friends might notice
). So I was never forced into anything to 'support my abdominal muscles' and she probably would have let me go without a bra if I'd wanted to (I didn't! I was far more conventional than her
).
I do remember wearing the dreaded liberty bodices, however, but I didn't wear them beyond the age of about 6 or 7.
do you still buy BBC radio times?
What did you you think you would have by your current age that you don't?
Soops kitchen, a place of reflection, refuge and at times revelry.

, not that I, as a convent schoolgirl, would know anything about them!