Do you give money to beggars?

I never ever give to beggars. Most of our beggars here in Durban are street children. The municipality has asked us not to give to them as there are places of safety for them where they can get food, a warm bed and encouraged to go to school. If you give money to beggars that is what they are committed to and will not try and move on to a better life for themselves. It is very hard but there are so many it is overwhelming so I just harden myself and say 'no'.

I have just read your post Grannyactivist, and I think you must be very brave to take people who have those issues into your own home.

susieb and Deeda, dogs are such good companions. Dogs who share their lives with homeless people are never left alone for long periods, and in their mind have a job, which is what many much loved pets lack. I shall add St Mungo's to my charity list, thanks for that Deedaa

I buy big issue, but give money to a homeless centre locally - I know due to my job that some 'homeless' are no such thing and actually have a tenancy, and sometimes giving money goes on drink and drugs

BTW - the dogs have a really good life as they are actually living the life that dogs were meant to - and most people treat the dog.....

We had a talk at church once from the charity saying how a homeless man had been found dead with his dog.. the dog was 'rescued' given vet treatment, fed until it was fit, retrained and found a home..... and if only we had offered that to it;s owner, he might not have died -made me think , hence my donations to the charity

I always give a donation to St Mungo's at Christmas because they will find places for people with dogs.

Ditto. And I buy The Big Issue. I cannot know the reasons that have reduced someone to need to beg. If that person's needs are legitimate, I'm very happy to contribute. If not, it appears that there are sufficient numbers of passers by who will do just that. My donation won't make a huge difference one way or the other.

I give to charities as well.

If I hear a good busker, I drop some coins in their hat - or violin case. But beggars are another matter. This country has a benefit system and I'm not it.

Yes, I am quite aware it could be for drugs or alcohol but I don't know the reasons why the person has been reduced to asking for money.

I give money to street/tube musicians. I would buy food but generally not give money.

I support various charities but I don't give money to beggars.

I don`t give to beggars, but do sometimes put a bit of change in a street musician`s collection, if they are good. I used to buy the Big Issue now and then, the man sho sold it was nice, but the one doing it now makes me feel uneasy, so I pass him by. When we were in Turkey, a Turkish tour guide told us not to give to beggars, he said they were probably better off than we were!

I do sometimes give money to beggars and when I worked in a cafe in Cornwall we had a couple of regular tramps who would come in for a cup of tea. They had been banned from most of the places in town but they were no trouble at all, just a bit smelly so you had to be careful where you sat them. When one of them died we sent a wreath to his funeral and people were so surprised it made the local paper. We had learned quite a bit about him in the time we'd known him and it just seemed the obvious thing to do.

Isn't it better to give whatever you can to a charity that helps the homeless such as Crisis? There are some genuine beggars but mostly it's either a scam or they use the money for drugs.

You have a big heart Glamma

Norwich police have asked people not to give money to beggars as they've found people coming into the city to beg who've been known to make £250 a week. Also, strangely, very few 'rough sleepers' actually sleep rough.

I used to give money to a singing Big Issue seller outside our local M&S but at Christmas he had been replaced by a young pregnant girl who appeared to be Eastern European. If this girl is homeless why does she not return to her home country as in her current condition she is unlikely to get work. It may sound harsh but it put me off giving. I don't view buskers as beggars because many of them are students just using their talents to earn money.

I never saw any beggars after I moved out of London and I haven't seen any now I am in New Zealand. However, I always had a soft spot for a middle-aged woman who used to beg in the subway leading out of Hammersmith station. She was very astute about her "marketing", changing her request from "any spare change" to "any spare notes" when she spied someone well dressed.

I do give to beggars regardless of age. Some teenagers have no choice when a mother's new boyfriend chucks them out or are mentally/physically abusing them. Others, be it mental health issues, some of which can lead to addiction or have nowhere to go due to closures of mental health institutions.
I just don't think this is a lifestyle choice they have made willingly.

We have street performers from the piping school and music academy amongst a variety of others. I give to them sometimes.

We are not overrun with beggars or performers so I enjoy the performers and give them something too.

I do buy a big issue from the girl in our local town she has been in the same area for a while now and is always polite and wishes you a good morning/afternoon and in Liverpool City Centre I always look out for the blind guy with the dog who plays his guitar in Church Street out side the shops at the top of the Street,he does not sing but just plays the most fantastic music on his guitar and I will spend 1/2hr listening to him,in fact he makes my trip all the more enjoyable if ever you are there it is worthwhile seeking him out.

There are increasing numbers of beggars in Manchester and the surrounding towns. It's so cold, has been raining incessantly, and there are so many rough sleepers who either can't get into hostels, or who find hostels intimidating. Many rough sleepers are ex care, ex army and have mental health problems, often connected to their drug/alcohol dependency. I buy a Big Issue fairly often. I do understand the reasons not to give cash, and I'm not critical of anyone who doesn't. I do feel though, that nothing could be much worse than being homeless, cold, wet, and miserable.

I don't give money to beggars but I like to support our local EMMAUS community.

The Big Issue sellers in our local town were becoming quite intimidating outside Waitrose. If you dodged them going one way they'd step in your path as you were on your way back to the car park. I find stopping dead and stepping sideways hurts my knees so I was relieved when they were moved on to a different part of town.

I am going to contradict myself here.

No I do not give to beggers. I am acutely aware that they probably would buy drugs or alcohol and I think a lot of their problems are self inflicted. Yes I know that makes me a hard old moo but I am a realist. I also know that some big issue sellers are not what they seem to be.

Why the contradiction? On another thread some time ago I related the story of a tramp I used to make a point of speaking to and giving a hot dog to in Leicester. I was in my early twenties then. He was a shy man who was nick named spit and twitch. He was left alone and if anyone had a go at him somebody would always stop what was happening.

I found out, after a long time he was a window fitter and family woes had left him distraught and he became 'a gentleman of the road'. One day, after many years he simply vanished. He was not an alcaholic as far as I knew but a genuine sad and lost person who deserved to spoken to respectfully. By the way, he did not beg he was never seen to anyway.

Gally what we used to call a tramp. I suspect a lot of them have borderline mental health issues.

I don't live where we get many but I would only consider giving a sandwich or such. I think there is probably still some law against begging with children in tow.

On second thoughts, we do have beggars where I live.

The monks from the local Buddhist Monastery sometimes appear in their orange robes with their food bowls.