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ermintrude Thu 15-Aug-13 22:17:36

My son has give his son what I consider to be a girl's name. I am gutted and have fallen out with him big time.

Need advice.

kittylester Sun 18-Aug-13 07:08:46

I understood that Dear Prudence was written by Paul and John while they were visiting India. Prudence was/is Mia Farrow's sister. She was very quiet and shy and they were trying to make her smile! It would make me smile if two of the Beatles wrote a song for me smile

Ariadne Sun 18-Aug-13 06:48:57

Hepzibah was the wife of Hezekia in the bible. Now why do I know that??

harrigran Sat 17-Aug-13 23:40:08

My parents bought their house from a lady called Hepzebah, I was surprised when I saw the house deeds. I had never come across the name before in the north east.

yogagran Sat 17-Aug-13 22:57:41

Lord Frederick Windsor (son of Prince and Princess Michael of Kent) and his wife Sophie have just had a baby and called her Maud Elizabeth Daphne Marina.
I haven't heard of any Maud's for years!

Deedaa Sat 17-Aug-13 22:53:12

grin grin grin Love that film!

janeainsworth Sat 17-Aug-13 22:01:36

We've just been watching Airplane

Rumack: Can you fly this plane, and land it?

Striker: Surely you can't be serious?

Rumack: I'm serious, and don't call me Shirley!

grin

Mishap Sat 17-Aug-13 21:30:55

"Fallen out with him"!!! - over a name!!!!

Time to eat some humble pie Ermintrude - this post has to be a wind-up surely.

absent Sat 17-Aug-13 20:37:52

When I was about four or five I announced that I wanted to be called Princess Fairy Silver Moonlight in future and demanded that my parents addressed me as such. My father answered, "Of course I shall dear, if I can remember it."

Tegan Sat 17-Aug-13 20:33:13

Is ermindtrude Frank's long lost sister?

j08 Sat 17-Aug-13 20:32:00

I remember Drene shampoo! smile Orangy colour and came in soft pouches.

Marelli Sat 17-Aug-13 20:29:50

I used to work with an Adelaide Bottomley grin!

Bags Sat 17-Aug-13 20:27:43

I enjoyed that novel too, jane.

Bags Sat 17-Aug-13 20:27:25

"allowing your son to name his [child]"

allowing !!??

Yeesh!

KatyK Sat 17-Aug-13 18:59:01

Jane - Maybe I should have gone with my OH's wishes!

Otw10413 Sat 17-Aug-13 18:20:20

There, there not their ; I hate predictive text ( sorry ) ! Oops don't get me started .

Otw10413 Sat 17-Aug-13 18:18:32

Dear Ermintrude,
I hope you have managed to feel more comfortable about allowing your son to name his son. Financial concerns in families, well they are probably the biggest can of worms on the planet . When we pay for anything in the shops, it's a simple exchange of goods and money , with family their are always invisible strings attached and they can bind all of you into the most uncomfortable positions from where your vision will almost certainly be obscured , in my experience . Let us know ( not the name , just how you are ) ?

Divawithattitude Sat 17-Aug-13 17:37:34

Ermintrude indeed, this has got to be a wind up.

janeainsworth Sat 17-Aug-13 17:32:26

KatyK one of my favourite novels is jane and Prudence by Barbara Pym. Written in the 50's, Jane is a rather disorganised country vicar's wife, dreamy and oblivious to her appearance or anyone else's, but Prudence is a smart working woman, very glamorous and given to love affairs smile

Aka Sat 17-Aug-13 16:12:03

I taught an Arora Pandora!

Galen Sat 17-Aug-13 15:32:51

We had an Anastasia at school and a Janetta.

Galen Sat 17-Aug-13 15:31:32

If you go round the graveyards in the Black Country, you find lots of Elis enochs, Hezekiahs, Ezekiels, even Hepesebah. My one grandmother was Miriam, I think it's a lovely named, my other one (who I didn't like) was Emily!

Nelliemoser Sat 17-Aug-13 15:27:01

I knew a lady named Drene. Which was a brand of shampoo. Her father is said to have seen it on a billboard and liked it.

KatyK Sat 17-Aug-13 15:21:55

Jane - yes hint taken. There is nothing wrong with the name Prudence, it's just that if you knew my DD she is definitely not a Prudence ! And I consider myself a bit of an authority on the Beatles and I didn't remember that the song was theirs! Obviously not that much of an authority then.
blush

soop Sat 17-Aug-13 15:16:44

In 1947, when I was just six years old, I asked my mother could I change my name to Sharen. She replied, that's so common. And yet, to me, it was quite beautiful and at that time there was just one girl in the village with the name. Then I wanted to be, Belinda/Heidi/Annabelle. All too much for my dear Mama. She told me that she almost decided to name me Lesley. hmm

Nelliemoser Sat 17-Aug-13 15:11:56

Jesse is very Old Testament though, I thought that might have suited Presbyterian Scots. grin I rather like it for a boy but it would cause teasing.