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...to expect a charity shop (business) to take my donation when I deliver it to them?

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Grannyknot Sun 19-May-13 10:15:25

There are three charity shops on our high street. The 'poshest' one is the one nearest to me and I am often on foot delivering my donations - it is really irritating to see the handwritten sign up "Sorry no more donations today" especially when it is a bag of heavy books or (as it was yesterday) a Denby set of mugs, milk jug and sugar dish. It doesn't have to be a weekend for them to refuse donations either.

Anyway one of the less posh charity shops who were happy to take my donation got lucky yesterday, but it meant I had to lug it two blocks further away.

The way I see it, these charity shops are after all businesses who ask for free goods to sell and if someone said here you go, here's something for you to sell in your shop, surely it's rude to say 'Not today thanks?'

Also - it encourages fly tipping!

HildaW Mon 20-May-13 19:25:27

Lots of charities use gift aid now, just ask if in doubt.

JessM Mon 20-May-13 19:16:18

Agreed Hilda. I usually use oxfam because they do gift aid. I never trust small charity shops after my horrible experience seeing a huge cellar full of mouldering donations. I would rather shops said "no thanks" than taking the donations and shoving them in a damp cellar!

HildaW Mon 20-May-13 18:53:47

Without trying to cause trouble, many doorstep bags are either full scale businesses or worse, total scams, so its far better to take anything to the shop of your choice. If in doubt just give them a ring beforehand to make sure its not a wasted journey.

j08 Mon 20-May-13 18:06:09

I wish I saw. confused and what is we're supposed to be seeing.

Never mind. #allcomesoutinthewash

Bags Mon 20-May-13 17:02:00

Certainly a bit of a cheek.

Ana Mon 20-May-13 16:45:40

Still seems a bit of a cheek to me...charities do ask for 'saleable' goods to be donated.

Bags Mon 20-May-13 16:29:52

We don't get any doorstep bags.

All I'm saying is that in some places, it's not at all easy to get to the dump/recycling centre unless you have a car. Perhaps the people who take 'tat' to the charity shops think that the charities can get the stuff to a recycling point for them. From reading some of the responses on this thread, it looks as if that's quite a sensible thing to think.

It would still be preferable if they didn't do it, but what I've said could be an explanation. Sorry. I just like thinking laterally and giving people the benefit of the doubt.

Ana Mon 20-May-13 16:24:07

So do I! confused

I was just offering an opinion on why some people take their rubbishy tat to charity shops. We get a lot of bags left for doorstep collections, which would make it even easier...no need to transport it yourself at all!

Grannyknot Mon 20-May-13 16:18:23

I see too now smile

Bags Mon 20-May-13 16:12:20

Oh, I see!

My remark about everyone not having a car was in response to ana's remark about people not being bothered to take their stuff to a recycling centre. Where I live, If you don't have a car, getting to the recycling centre with anything remotely difficult to carry for a couple of miles is virtually impossible.

Bags Mon 20-May-13 16:08:00

Gknot, late getting back to your question about cars or lack of. Here it matters. There is only one bus an hour to one place! No buses to the dump, which is at the top of a long hill. Perhaps I should add that not everyone lives in a city with regular buses going everywhere useful. Not a criticism; just a remark to perhaps explain some difficulties some people may have.

Re bin-filling – our absolute rubbish only gets emptied once a fortnight. Sometimes I don't take it down the hill for a month. It's never full. Where does everyone's rubbish come from? Mind you, we are only a three person house. Most of our rubbish is recyclable. That bin (paper, plastic, metal) usually needs emptying after two weeks.

We tow the wheelie bins back up the hill behind the car. Yes, it is that steep, not to mention bumpy. Everyday things are just much harder work in some places. I'm not complaining, just explaining smile

MargaretX Mon 20-May-13 15:16:02

I work for a charity shop in Germany and we get too many unsalable books. We prefer it if people ask if we take books and we can tell them, not more than five and a load of academic books would be refused.
We also don't take classics with small print.

Best to ring up first. The days when charity shops took everything are now over.

Grannyknot Mon 20-May-13 15:01:04

No problem! smile. I'm sorry for the people who struggle to get around and those who don't have public transport or drive, but I still don't understand what that has to do with charity shops turning donations away ...

Elegran Mon 20-May-13 14:37:20

Sorry for the third degree, grannyknot (You held up under it very well!)

But there are many places, most of them outside London, where the buses only run once a day into the nearest town, and passengers have to walk a long way from their home to the nearest bus-stop, using a stick to help them. even the shopping trolley is hard to manoeuvre with only one hand. Many others live in towns, but have difficulty getting to and from the bus stop, or on and off the bus, and even in a big city like Edinburgh, they may have to get three buses to go what is a shortish district as the crow flies - One to avoid a steep hill, one into the town centre, one out again to their destination. The Age Scotland link has some interviews with such people.

Grannyknot Mon 20-May-13 14:09:43

j08 grin. I've learnt a lot about charity shop, I had no idea that volunteers had to do the sorting.

j08 Mon 20-May-13 14:05:24

Perhaps on the day you went Grannyknot one of their volunteer sorters had had to pul out at the last minute, and they were getting a huge backlog. Nuisance for you though after lugging it!

j08 Mon 20-May-13 14:03:06

Flip me Elegran! Where's your bright light and knuckledusters? shock

Grannyknot Mon 20-May-13 13:50:46

elegran I am getting confused now! My OP was a bit of a moan because the charity shop wouldn't accept my donations.

Then Bags said "not everyone has a car". But the point is I walk to my charity shop (and of course I realise that not everyone can), but I don't understand what whether anyone has a car or not has to do with it. Genuine question.

Now we're on to all your questions! confused. Not sure why you're asking but:

I live in London.
I take anything and everything on public transport, if it is too heavy, I take it in my wheeled trolley.
The bus stop is quite far, but not too far for me to walk to.
My GP is 20 minutes walk away from me or 10 minutes on the bus.
My dentist is in Hungary (but comes to London every 3 months).
I don't have a hospital (so far).

Elegran Mon 20-May-13 09:22:57

Where do you live, Grannyknot?

What kind of things do you transport by public transport, and how far?
Where is your GP? your dentist? your hospital?

How far is the bus stop from where you live and from where you are transporting these things? How far can you walk?

All these answers and more are relevant to your question.

Age Scotland "Still Waiting" Campaign

Grannyknot Mon 20-May-13 09:01:23

bags why is it important that not everyone has a car? I get most places I want to get on public transport (although I do drive).

J52 Mon 20-May-13 08:01:41

Interesting thread! Have just spent the weekend clearing the house of 24 years of gathering objects. Today trips are planned to the tip and the local charity shops. We will share our things around 3 local shops. I hope they take them!
Some smaller, and possibly more desirable objects we are taking to 2 small local charities, in a small town.Both are entirely volunteer run and all the money goes directly to the charity concerned. One of which built, runs and maintains the town's swimming pool.
Yes, we have gathered that much stuff over the years. When DH can be persuaded to have round 2 of the clear out, there'll be more!

Ana Sun 19-May-13 22:15:52

They do that here too. They seem to take stuff which isn't selling in one shop and take it to a shop in another area. Another van takes away the absolute rubbish.
I know this because there's a charity shop behind the office where I work, and the vans often block my parking space... (Most of the drivers are lovely, though, and will move when asked!)

Ella46 Sun 19-May-13 21:17:23

The stuff gets collected from the charity shops where I live. The vans deliver stock from somewhere and collect other rags/stuff and take it away to be sorted and sold on.

Ana Sun 19-May-13 20:31:13

Sorry, Hilda, my post was replying to Bags!

Ana Sun 19-May-13 20:29:58

Because with bins commonly being emptied only fortnightly, they need all the space for their household waste, I presume...