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To object to inane 'banter' on serious threads?

(217 Posts)
Greatnan Sat 20-Apr-13 09:59:27

We are all, presumably, mature adults, and if you have nothing to contribute to a serious, or sometimes tragic, thread, would it not be better to stop trying to trivialise the subject and find another thread where your wittering would not disrupt the flow.
And please don't accuse anybody who objects of having no sense of humour - most of us just know when it is appropriate to make jokes.

j08 Tue 23-Apr-13 19:26:14

Fiery Fred!

j08 Tue 23-Apr-13 19:25:58

Fred

Bags Tue 23-Apr-13 19:25:13

What's his name?

j08 Tue 23-Apr-13 19:23:26

Marelli grin And to all the Scottish, Welsh, and Irish ones too. dragon

(Don't knock the dragon. He's becoming a pet.) #gettingveryfond

absent Tue 23-Apr-13 18:39:35

Yes! Or, in answer to the OP, more accurately no!

Marelli Tue 23-Apr-13 18:16:56

I put that on the wrong thread...confused!

Marelli Tue 23-Apr-13 18:06:20

Happy St George's Day dragon to all English Gransnetters. smile

Nonu Tue 23-Apr-13 18:05:11

Hey i make that 3 choices .

smile & dragon can"t resist him .

Not the most attractive dragon on the planet though .

kittylester Tue 23-Apr-13 17:55:49

Or join in the diversion smile

Movedalot Tue 23-Apr-13 17:44:03

Nonu smile

Nonu Tue 23-Apr-13 17:34:45

as pimples . Move. grin

Movedalot Tue 23-Apr-13 17:04:34

If you don't like the way a post is going you have 2 choices, try to bring it back to the OP or go away, simples.

j08 Tue 23-Apr-13 16:59:49

Is it just me who's totally confused now? And gave up caring God knows how long ago?

Tegan Tue 23-Apr-13 16:46:42

Women are very good [men can't do this] at moving a conversation away from something potentially hurtful/embarrassing for the sake of the people involved in that conversation. However, on a lot of threads the diversion can be used to undermine a previous post. Being an internet forum it's often difficult to know which is which, but one tends to use one's own perception of the person doing it. And, without facial expressions etc it's not always easy to make that call. Best to give the benefit of the doubt if possible [but not always possible].

Tegan Tue 23-Apr-13 16:41:15

Agree with Moved.

kittylester Tue 23-Apr-13 16:30:11

I don't know how to take that stansgran smile. I've decided to be blush. Thank you. flowers

Stansgran Tue 23-Apr-13 13:50:40

St George and his dragon are venerated in Ragusa( a place where Montalbano was filmed and at the risk of total meander the new series has started on Italian tv and Luca whatsit got married this summer)
Kittylester is almost always right in all her posts.

annodomini Tue 23-Apr-13 13:48:03

Having a foot in two camps, I'll raise a wine or a brew to my English ancestors - and descendants. Ten years ago, I was with a Ramblers group in a non-tourist part of Spain. The patron saint of the town, Caceres, is St George and there was a big pageant that night, showing the Saint fighting the Moors and finally throwing his spear at the dragon at which was the signal for a fine fireworks display. Now that's what I call a celebration! Come on England!

Movedalot Tue 23-Apr-13 13:18:48

Perhaps it is not so much the changes in the threads but the motivation behing them?

Ella46 Tue 23-Apr-13 12:15:32

dragon dragon

I'm off now to check on the chickens grin HAPPY ST. GEORGE'S DAY.

Bez Tue 23-Apr-13 12:04:02

Pity the dragon was not there 1 March for the Welsh grandparents!! I like it though. Rose needed today for the English ones. grin

soop Tue 23-Apr-13 12:02:01

Granny smile
Oh, go then... happy dragon day to jings and all English GN's. Although I'm English, I've become a born-again Scot. wink

Grannyeggs Tue 23-Apr-13 11:43:11

soop and kitty sunshine I am a meanderer I'm afraid. jo8 here's to dragon dragon

soop Tue 23-Apr-13 11:11:02

kitty...few things beat a cheerful, meandering conversation. flowers

kittylester Tue 23-Apr-13 11:07:45

Hey, this thread is meandering - just like real conversations do! And, in real life, don't we try to bring a little humour into serious conversations? smilesunshine