The highlight for me was getting a valentine's card for the first time in my life, from mysteryman who seems to have since disappeared into the ether! Ah well you can never rely on a man to stick around (still not convinced it wasn't jingl)
Other highlights: finding support when I need it, people to share my happiness with when good things happen, and laughing till the tears run down my cheeks at Greatnan and others' jokes.
I have found some kindred spirits, made good friends, and had some thought-provoking debates.
But overall the best bit for me is being able to sometimes forget I am a gran, or a mum, or a worker; but remember the girl I used to be and just have fun and be as silly as I like 