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It's important to listen carefully to what they are trying to say and not dismiss things or laugh at them. Always tell them everyday how brilliant they are, and how proud you are of them!

praise even the littlest of things. don't help too much - let them try things for themselves. comfort when things don't go well but encourage trying again and again.

plenty of praise and encouragement.

Let them know that you are listening to them and will always be there when they need your support.

Children mirror their parents - a confident happy parent will invariably nurture a confident happy child! Make them feel as if they matter - their thoughts feelings and opinions - in this way your child will naturally gain confidence because they will feel they are worthy. Cake helps too !! ;)

children learn what they live. If you give them praise and have patience they will be confident and be tolerant. I try to make sure my children know it's ok not to be the best just to try your best.

simply be there for them and cuddle and listen to them let them feel the love and support for them it makes a world of difference

Listen to what they are saying, don't talk down to children, And answer their questions as openly as possible. Children respond to respect.

Encourage them and let them know it's OK if they make a mistake. Don't always jump in and finish their sentence for them.

We always encourage the kids to have an opinion on any topic, and to feel included in conversations, that it is OK to ask questions without fear of being put down.

Don't put too much pressure on them and always listen to their concerns

Tell them how well they are doing and how hard they are trying.

Lots of praise, don't pull them down, lots of comorting

The key to building confidence in children is to make them feel good about themselves, so rewarding good behaviour is key to this. Star charts are a good thing to introduce at an early age, children love to be fully involved in this as they see the stars/stickers building up over the days/weeks and know they will be rewarded at the end of a certain period - it builds confidence within them and encourages good behaviour at the same time. Also encouraging children to participate in group/social activities is great for confidence building. Children who don't participate in such activities are more likely to have confidence issues as they're not socially aware, they don't know how to interact with others and become shy and withdrawn. It's really important that they learn how to socialize and interact with their own age group as well as older children and adults xx

Always remind children that you love them even when they have had to be told off. Listen carefully to what a child has to say and give praise for all the good things they do and say because there is always something to praise them for and this will build confidence!

Allow your child the opportunity to contribute

It is important that children get opportunities to do things that are genuinely useful & appreciated

Household chores are a great way to give children responsibility. It gives parents the chance to say "thanks" or "well done". Children like to feel helpful and useful.

Make sure you're always telling them how much you love them and how special they are. Praise them whenever they do well and encourage them to feel proud of themselves. Get them to try new things and be themselves when making friends and going new places. Let them know they're capable of anything they set their mind to.

Show them. My son had trouble writing stories so as we sat in the garden I told him that was one of the easiest things... I told him to look at the shed. I saw two eyes (the windows) hair (the ivy growing on top and a big smile the geraniums growing in the box at the bottom what did he see? He smiled and unleashed his confidence. Later he went to Uni studying English Lit etc.

I like to encourage and praise and not focus too much on things that the child finds difficult. Every little thing that needs boosting, I focus on with phrases like, "Good job". "See how well you're doing?" "You're such a big girl now" x

Listen to what they are saying and engage with dialogue. if possible action on what they are saying

Give praise where praise should be given...it not only boosts their confidence but also makes them eager to please again.

I always encouraged my children to do their best; as long as they try their hardest or put in the work - coming first or being the best is not what it is all about. I think growing up with this made them confident in all aspects of life.

Treat them with lots of love, care,respects and discipline when there is a need but must alays explain to him/her why you are discilpined.

Don't force your ambitions on to them - my sister did this, as she always wanted to work in the beauty industry, and never got the opportunity. My niece followed this path to college to please her Mum - but, eventually was found in tears because she wanted to do something different.
I guess that I am lucky to have older sisters in as much that I did a lot of 'back seat' learning watching them parenting.
Incidently, they did a lot of things right, too, and are great parents .. but, we all get it wrong sometimes xx
Anyhow, my niece is now trainng to be a social worker, and loves it xx

Let them know they were BORN THIS WAY!!